I am a married woman who got addicted to cyber sex and phone sex. It was all supposed to be for fun just to add a little spice into my marriage. My husband found out one day. I had been emailing a guy for a long time and was talking to him online. We would engage in hot and heavy cyber sex and also phone sex. It all stopped when hubby found out. I tried doing it behind his back, but he had his ways of finding out. Until this day, he still reminds me of the cyber sex. It is considered cheating. So, be aware out there and don't get caught.