I met a young man at the mall, and we chatted. He was very nice and flirted a little but didn't push. Then he helped me carry bags to my car, so I offered a ride to his car. He said he missed his girlfriend a lot because she had to travel for business. I thought about having sex, but I didn't have the nerve. So, before he got out of the car, I gave him oral sex. The most exciting part for me was I actually asked him if I could. That was almost as much fun as sex. I wonder if many other women have this experience. I often think about it. When I talk to someone, I think how easy it would be, and I get excited. Is there a good custom for asking so the men don't think I'm crazy or cheap? -Vikki, 25