Gay guy here. I’ve had a lover for many years but have been getting some extra occasionally on the side for a while now because I like some variety. I met a married guy who likes oral and gay sex but only wants it with another married guy. I told him I am married, too. So, neither my lover nor this married guy knows the truth. This married guy is for real because I've been to his house. Pretty low, huh, this double timing? But what's the harm? We do things safely and discreetly, and no one gets hurt this way, but I get to have my fun! -Henry, 37