There are times when I wish I could get a real old fashioned spanking. My work becomes stressful and it turns me into an unpleasant character that no one enjoys. My wife, when she was alive, handled the problem using the Spenser plan, which is consensual spanking. Now, living alone, I tried self-spanking, but it is not the solution. Then, I tried professional women who were not close by and quite expensive. I know a local female who might take care of me, but I do not know how to approach the subject.