I'm thirty-five years old and have been married for ten years. Sex with my wife sucks. She has a nice body and all, but I just don't get satisfied anymore. It's like I need something and it's to boring doing it the traditional way. I've told my wife that I would like to see her with another couple in bed. I want to see her do another girl and have another man please her while I watch. She used to get mad, but now I think she likes the idea. I have to have this thought in my head in order to get aroused. I also have a fantasy of my wife and me giving a big, endowed man oral sex at the same time. I don't know what to think. I just want do something different. -Max, 35