Hello there, this is my first time writing about the things that keep going on in my mind. Iím a happily married man. Iíve been married for ten years, but for two years now, I have been thinking about watching my wife in bed with another man. I donít know if it is okay, but when I'm thinking about it, it really makes me so turned on. It never crossed my mind to tell my wife about it because I think she will freak out, or maybe she will let it happen. I really donít know what to do. I hope you guys can help me or give some advice on what I should do. Thanks a lot.