My wife and I have been married for more than ten years and our sex life is not at all dull. One of our favorite scenes is total role reversal; I wear sexy, black lace lingerie, dark nylons, and pumps with four inch heels. She wears a flannel work shirt, blue jeans, and work boots; and, of course, a large strap-on. We cuddle and go through extended foreplay; she calls me by a woman's name, I call her Chuck. Eventually, she makes love to me, the rougher the better. You men, if your sex life is getting routine; try this, you'll love it.