I am in love with two brothers. I know that it sounds seedy, but I really cannot decide which one I love more. They are very different people and I am thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend of three years to be with his brother because I get along with him so well. I also know that he does like me, although I do not know if he loves me. We have had a few passing moments when we have kissed, etc., though we have not had sex. My dilemma is that I do not know whether this is the right thing to do (split up with current boyfriend) or if I am throwing away a valuable relationship for some whim. I don't know what to do or what to think. I feel very in love with the one that I am not with; yet I feel a great friendship and companionship with the brother that I'm seeing now. What to do? -Rachel, 22