I am a twenty-year-old female and was visiting with my girlfriend at her apartment. Her boyfriend was also there. I guess she had a little too much to drink because around 10:30, she went to bed with a headache. So, her boyfriend and I were talking, and then we began to fool around. We were kissing and touching. I found out my girlfriend never gives him oral. In fact, he had never experienced oral. Within moments, I was going down on him. I could tell he was really enjoying it. He thought it was awesome, and I enjoyed doing that for him. A couple of days later, he asked me if we could do that again. Since I didn't have a serious boyfriend, I told him that if he took me to dinner and a movie, then we could most certainly do it again. So, we went out, and after the movie we parked and I again gave him oral. After that, we started going out about once or twice a week, and afterwards we always park somewhere. Lately, he has asked me if I would go to bed with him. I told him that I didn't want to be disloyal to my girlfriend who is still hooked up with this guy. -Julia, 20