I'm in love with a Bahamian, fifty-four-year-old man for the past year. He comes to visit me every three or four months. I don't know how to tell him that I need to see him more frequently because I am in love. I need his kiss, his hands over me, and I need to sleep with him at least once in a month. He never talks to me about coming to see me more often. Of course, he is married, but he does not sleep with his wife. When he comes here he is anxious to see me. We always make love with tenderness and wildness at the same time. I would like to be with him forever, but what is HE thinking? -Magdalie, 30