I recently got out of a relationship that lasted almost three years. My then boyfriend traveled a lot, and I would get really lonely. Not to mention the traveling was hard on our relationship, although we maintained a healthy, passionate sex life. Anyway, during a few of his trips, I would go out and sometimes end up hooking up with a hot guy. I felt guilty only once because I came really close to having intercourse with one of them. Other than that, I didn't care. I felt that if I had to suffer for all the lonely nights at home alone, I better make the best of it. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last, and now I'm having a great time meeting new people and trying new things. -Ginny, 24