Iím forty-five-years-old and have been married for nine years. My husband canít have sex for the past seven years. He's on different kinds of medications. I am seeing someone secretly. We are both married. I fell in love with him. He told me he loves me, too. If he means it or not, I could care less. As long as he makes love to me once in a while, Iím happy. Iím still hot. I can't help it.