5 Clues He Isnít Going to Call
By Laura Snyder
Itís one of the great inexplicable mysteries of the male species. You can forge a great initial connection with a cute guy, exchange contact info, and thenÖ.nothing.
Before you pick up the phone Ė again Ė just to double check itís working, read on for the reasons he didnít dial.
You were overeager.
Um, could it be that you freaked him out by handing him your number with a needy monologue along the lines of ďAre you gonna call? Youíd better call. I hate it when guys donít call.Ē He wants to know youíre interested. But he also wants to know you wonít be lurking outside his house peering into his windows.
You werenít eager enough.
Donít make it seem like youíre doing him a favor by deigning to give him your digits with a dismissive, ďwell, I guess you can have it.Ē Itís hardly a shocker: heís only going to dial if you really seem attracted.
He was just too busy.
He really did dig you, but then he had a crazy day at work, his dog got sick and he was out of town on business. By the time he got around to it, it seemed too late and he didnít want to risk you not remembering who he was. Guess it wasnít meant to be.
Hello! Heís just not interested.
Listen up and listen good. Sometimes heís just being polite. Sure he seemed interested! Yes, he did touch your arm a lot and laugh at your jokes! But at the end of the day, he just didnít feel enough of a sizzle to pick up the phone. Donít take it personally (even though, well, it is personal). Just be glad you escaped dating such a duplicitous dude.
Heís waiting for you.
Consider it a trade-off for that whole equal rights thing. More and more fellas are saying sayonara to the old-fashioned approach and letting the ladiesí fingers do the walking. So, if youíve got his digits Ė and are dying to see him again Ė pick up the damn phone already.
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