Is Your Guy a Friend Blocker?
If you're finding that you're spending less and less time with your friends, and your boyfriend seems to like it better that way, then he might be a friend blocker. How can you tell? Look for these signs.
Guilt Creeps Up on You
You're out with your girls and you're having fun, but all of a sudden you feel guilty. You know your guy is sitting at home wondering what you're doing. You're happy to be at the club with your girlfriends, but you feel bad for leaving your boyfriend behind.
He Checks Up on You
Not only do you feel that tinge of guilt for having fun without your guy, but he also keeps checking in with you. The texts go something like this: "Where are u?" "Who's there?" "U having fun?" "Miss you here all alone :(" "Who are you dancing with?" "Send me a pic!" "When are you coming home?" and so on, and so on. He's checking up on you and never letting you forget he's waiting and wondering.
Friends Get Fed Up
If you're out to have a blast with your girls, but you keep getting pulled back to that dark cloud you call a boyfriend while you're out, your friends are going to lose it eventually. They invited you so you could have fun, not spoil theirs! Don't let your needy guy stifle your girls' night out, or you'll get skipped over on the invite next time.
Keep Mixing It Up
What can you do about it? Make a point to see your friends without your boyfriend more frequently. Keep the connection strong with your girls. And keep letting him know that it's important to your happiness to spend time with your circle. Let him know by talking to him, but also let him know by physically showing how contented it makes you. Smile and cuddle and be affectionate with him when you return from your female bonding sessions.
But don't let him assume that you feel guilty for leaving him behind and are trying to make it up to him. Just be yourself - the one you almost forgot about, the one who gets energy from hanging with the girls as well as from snuggling with your guy. Don't let him make you choose, or he might end up on the losing end of that ultimatum!
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