By Laura Snyder

Ever felt you needed a cheat-sheet for dating help when you're stuck trying to charm your paramour? We can't guarantee a second date or even a good night kiss, but we can promise these tricks will ease you through most trouble spots.

Be a Fabulous Flirt

It's not rocket science, just a simple way of forging an instant connection with another human being, be they a potential lover, in-law, or the grocery story cashier. Get a handle on the basics - eye contact, a friendly smile, and a gentle touch - and build up to more advanced techniques like the classic I-need-help ploy (like asking for a hand catching the bartender's attention) or even develop a line (just make it a good one).

Plan a Great Date

Everyone past the age of having a curfew should be able to ask someone out and execute a great date. Need a foolproof plan? Snag a pair of tickets to an event, or invite your crush to do something fun, like hit the local ice-skating rink. It's easier to offer the invitation, and there's no pressure to sit through four hours of dinner-and-a-movie drama.

Mind Your Manners

Social grace lubricates the often sticky gears of the dating machine. Good manners won't put and end to occasionally awkward dinner conversations, but frequent "please and "thank-you"s and opened doors will make you a more attractive companion.

Perfect Your Pucker

Being a fantastic oral explorer might not mean you'll find the perfect relationship, but even if it doesn't work out, at least you'll be remembered as a great kisser! So relax your jaw, let things get a little slobbery, wrap your arms around someone and practice 'til perfect.