I have been dating this guy for four years and I went on a business trip with him. I was meeting him to go to dinner one night and I got to the office and his door was locked, so the janitor let me in. There he was, having sex with his secretary. I didn't say anything; just waited for a while, then knocked on the door. Well, we went to dinner and then I asked him why his door was locked and he said he was going over some papers and didn't want to be disturbed. Then I asked him if his secretary was his paper, and he stared at me. I yelled at him in front of everyone and he was so shocked. Needless to say, I never saw him again. -- Kat, 26