I met this guy 7 months ago online (personals) and things began awesome. The sex was out of this world. He did things to me I never dreamed possible. We were having sex 3 or 4 times a day and, I tell you, he's not like your average guy … 15 minutes and he finished and you're left wondering what all the fuss is over. No, he will go for hours ... 4 hours is our normal session. I bet your asking, "So, what's the problem?" Well, for the last 2 months, he has started looking at the online personals again and porn daily. It seems to me that he has to look at some form of porn in order to have sex with me. It's either a magazine or the DVD or he's just finished looking through the pictures of personals. How do I let him know this bothers me? Also, it sometimes seems like it wouldn't matter who he was doing, because a lot of the times I catch him staring at himself the whole time in the mirror!!!! It's like he auditioning for his own porn! -- Miranda, 25