I went out with a guy for 15 months. After 12 months and much happiness, he started not showing to pick me up when he said he would. He lived in Queens, and I live on Long Island. He had a problem with driving to Long Island when we first went out, then told me it wasn't so bad. After the 12 months, he moved 15 minutes further away. Then, he started complaining about the trip. Needless to say, we are not together anymore. Why even bother the beginning, falling in love, and then deciding to get out of it because it's too far? -- Melody, 20