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The No. 1 Way to Turn Her On! If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, act like a teenager in love.
Kissing--that is, old-fashioned making out--could be the best boost to your love life, especially for women who need to rev up their libidos. That's the word from sex therapist Laura Berman, founder of the Berman Center for Sexual Health, who insists that great sex begins with a kiss. As a recent guest on "The Oprah Winfrey Show," Berman said, "Kissing is so important and goes by the wayside so quickly. Remember in the beginning of a relationship, you can't stop making out with one another? Women, in particular, love that. It's part of their erotic template--what turns them on." Berman, who uses talk therapy to help couples build stronger relationships and improve their sex lives, has a homework assignment that will help couples get in the mood. "Start giving your partner a 10-second kiss at least once a day," she told Oprah's audience. "You'll be surprised to see what a difference it makes and how long it feels compared to what you normally do." This is very important: The kiss should just be that: a kiss. Men, make sure you kiss just for the sake of kissing and not as a prelude to sex. "The only time that women get kissed in a long-term relationship is when it's a prelude to sex. So you want to make it not about sex but just about kissing," Berman insists. "When he's not putting the pressure on and he's just about sensuality and loving her and connecting with her and kissing her, then she often will get turned on as a result." --From the Editors at Netscape
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