How to Meet Compatible Women
There you go again! Do you fall for the wrong kind of woman time after time? Perhaps you need to alter your approach a bit. Think about some ways to start your next relationship on more solid ground.
Where You Meet
If you're picking up most of your dates in bars or dance clubs, you might try a tamer environment. For example, if you like tennis or kayaking, try a class or group outing that will allow you to make new friends of either gender. The goal is to look for opportunities to meet women when you are not under the influence and when you have a clear head (use the one with the brain in it, in other words).
How You Start Off
For your first date, a nice dinner out is a good start. Then try some activities that you might have in common - whether playing golf, watching a baseball game live, going to a play or taking a one-shot exotic cooking class. This will help you share or develop common interests and give you some conversation starters.
Why She's Attractive
Although initial attraction based on looks is not something most people ignore when choosing a date, you'll need more than that to have a successful long-term relationship. Lasting attraction usually involves a sense of humor, kindness and caring, thoughtfulness, ability to get along with family and friends, some common interests and even separate activities. Closeness and space can work together to make you enjoy each other's company. Clinginess and standoffishness do the opposite. So keep in mind your own need for balance and give that to your sweetie as well.
When You Get Close
Maybe you're getting too close too fast. Get to know your new girl well before you venture into the bedroom. That ultimate closeness can cloud your judgment about how you feel about each other. So give yourself time to form an emotional bond (or not!) before you form a physical connection. If the chemistry is right, waiting a bit shouldn't hurt and could help you have a stronger, more successful relationship.
Finding a woman you're compatible with can take time and often involves a lot of false starts, but ultimately you'll be happy you were patient until you crossed paths with the right one.
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