By Laura Snyder
Guys, don't feel guilty if you're mentally ravishing Angelina Jolie next time you're in bed with your regular sweetheart (who, we can guess, is not Ms. Jolie). Chances are your lady is deep in her own dreams of getting busy with someone - or many someones! - else.
Fantasies are mirrors of what we're attracted to in real life, whether it's a lust for power, love of a challenge, or a sense of adventure.
Think you can guess what's on her mind?
#5: The Vague Stranger
You men tend to focus on the details - specific body parts and their activities. While women's fantasies are just as vivid, they tend to lack the same descriptive details about the object of the fantasy. What's so appealing about a stranger? Because she feels she can truly let go with someone she doesn't know (and who won't judge her).
#4: Being Submissive
Women are more likely to have fantasies of being the passive recipients of sex (whereas you guys get off on being the active partner). It's not about being dominated, exactly, though - it's about her irresistible sex appeal that causes some guy to be so overcome with passion, he just has to have her.
#3: Getting Off in a Group
Part of it is the taboo - the more forbidden it is, the hotter it seems - but it's also an empowerment thing, especially if she's on display in some way. Knowing that others are getting excited by her performance gives a sexy feeling of satisfaction.
#2: The Ex Factor
Women are more likely to dream about someone they have - or wished they had - an actual sexual encounter with (as opposed to the celebrities and random strangers that fill your naughty heads, boys). While guys tend to get off on the idea of anonymous babes, women's fantasies are more emotional. Two times more women than men fantasize about their current partners.
#1: Girl on Girl
Hey, that's your favorite fantasy, too! Women (yes, straight ones), who also tend to be more bicurious, are much more likely to have same-sex fantasies than men. Don't feel left out, though, usually she wants you to watch.